Playing Defense
Have you ever talked to people who are so defensive?
I have.. and mind you...it's not easy.. it's very difficult in fact..
And.. I'm TIRED of it...
My dad always say that people becomes defensive when they've either done something wrong, or, guilty of something.
And I know it's true, because I used to get defensive when I was in the wrong, and didn't want to admit my mistake.
But as age grows, I'm not fit to play "defense" game... So I'd just quickly admit I was wrong and hoping things will get over and done with.. and soon, people might even forget.. Hehehe..
So right now... my way to deal with overly-defensive people is just to.... leave them.... alone..... and get on with life. Period.